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International Boost Self Esteem Month

March 1 - April 1

PLEASE NOTE: This is a universally recognized awareness day or week that has already been established. We will be recognizing these topics in addition to the ones we have set up specifically for this project.

Be mindful.
We can’t change something if we don’t recognize that there is something to change. By simply becoming aware of our negative self-talk, we begin to distance ourselves from the feelings it brings up. This enables us to identify with them less.

Change the story
We all have a narrative or a story we’ve created about ourselves that shapes our self-perceptions, upon which our core self-image is based. If we want to change that story, we have to understand where it came from and where we received the messages we tell ourselves. Whose voices are we internalizing?

Avoid falling into the compare-and-despair rabbit hole.

Channel your inner rock star.
We all have our strengths and weaknesses. Someone may be a brilliant musician, but a dreadful cook. Neither quality defines their core worth. Recognize what your strengths are and the feelings of confidence they engender, especially in times of doubt. It’s easy to make generalizations when you “mess up” or “fail” at something, but reminding yourself of the ways you rock offers a more realistic perspective of yourself.

Exercise.
Many studies have shown a correlation between exercise and higher self-esteem, as well as improved mental health. This one definitely does not work for everyone, but I think that is okay because everyone is different!

Do unto others.
There is much truth to the fact that what we put out there into the world tends to boomerang back to us. To test this out, spend a day intentionally putting out positive thoughts and behaviors toward those with whom you come into contact. As you go about your day, be mindful of what comes back to you, and also notice if your mood improves.

Forgiveness.
By holding on to feelings of bitterness or resentment, we keep ourselves stuck in a cycle of negativity. If we haven’t forgiven ourselves, shame will keep us in this same loop.

Remember that you are not your circumstances.
Learning to differentiate between your circumstances and who you are is key to self-worth.
We are all born with infinite potential and equal worth as human beings. That we are anything less is a false belief that we have learned over time. Therefore, with hard work and self-compassion, self-destructive thoughts and beliefs can be unlearned.

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Start:
March 1
End:
April 1
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